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Enjoyment of Disparity:

I wanted to see if I could make a list of ways our relationship incorporates disparity between us. Kind of like a way I could identify things in the daily routine where my submissive position is acknowledged and opportunities for my disparity pleasure to be felt. Another way of describing it is these are opportunities my wife allows me to live my wish to be her submissive husband.  There are just so many ways I get to have submissive pleasure, I felt it a good idea to get them into writing too.

Meals: My wife approves my suggestions of meals. She alters portions and ingredients whenever she wishes. Most of the time, her ingredients are of superior grade. For instance, best and costliest cuts of meat are set aside for her. Special recipes are accommodated for her meals alone. Her food is served where and when she finds most convenient. Her deserts are of her choosing and provided whenever she likes. I am responsible for all the cooking, kitchen cleaning, and maintenance of the shopping list.

Free Time: My wife enjoys the liberty to use her non-working hours however she chooses. She often decides on spur of the moment to peruse an interest and is otherwise unencumbered. I am obligated to be always available to support her in pursuit of her leisure time activities. Sometime this requires me to make arrangements to pack suit cases for over night stays. Other times, watching the children while she goes out for some exercise or other time away. She also sometimes plans weekend trips for herself and I am available to allow her freedom to do so.  I am not suppose to asked about her plans.  Instead, she lets me know things as she feels I need to know.

Money: My wife alone has access to the household income. I am earning more money then I have ever in my career, but do need to ask for permission to have spending money. Most of the time, this is about two dollars a week. She enjoys the freedom to direct the disposable income in whatever way she chooses. For instance, shortly after we began our WLM, we had our ten year wedding anniversary. She upgraded her wedding band significantly and also got matching ear rings. They look spectacular. Another example is she felt for our eldest child’s ten year birthday, she would like for me to take him on a long weekend vacation to Washington DC. She is financing the trip and having me make the arrangements. She pays for meals when we eat out, groceries, clothing, all the bills, and makes all the family entertainment decisions. She does on occasion, ask me for my input, but decides one way or the other after I provide my views.

Sex: Our encounters are whenever she chooses she would enjoy. Also, however she feels she would like things to proceed and for however long. She is able to enjoy the time as much as she likes. The sexual attention she gives me is kept to a tease only and on relatively rare occasions, I am given a release. Otherwise our sexual time is centered around my wife’s enjoyment. We have fallen into a pattern of about a ten to one ratio.

D/s Service: I do not know how else to categorize these types of things except to call it this. Things like being permitted to kiss her feet after she comes home from exercise or giving her a two hour foot massage blindfolded. A few others are reading my rules, kneeling on the floor while she sits on the couch, giving her a pedicure, picking up her dirty clothes that she routinely leaves on the floor. Another one of my favorites now a days is making of the bed. She has not made the bed in months.

Chores: All chores are mine. I do the laundry before the weekend, I clean the house, keep thing organized, iron, and look after all other domestic responsibilities. I am reading a lot of Martha Steward to help in this area. I didn’t realize how much I didn’t know before I started to research.

Sleep: My wife sleeps as long as she likes every day. During the work week, I wake at 5:40 to ready the morning and take my shower. On the weekends, I wake when the children do and keep them quite while my wife enjoys her weekend mornings.

Parenting: the decisions on the parenting style used is directed by my wife. She chooses how the children will be supervised, patterns of household activities, and levels of punishments. Often these are delegated to me to follow through with. For instance, ensuring the children do their chores and homework is my responsibility. Someone once commented that it seems she has distanced herself from the children and that is not the case. She spends a great deal of time with them, but her time is spent in leisure. Watching TV with them or playing the Wii are common ones. Kissing them good night and comforting when there is a boo-boo are others. She is not distanced from the children at all. In fact, the WLM dynamic may have brought her closer since she is more unencumbered and can spend more quality time with them.

Our relationship: My wife decides how I interact in our marriage. She enjoys me deferring to her, but not being too outwardly servile. She enjoys my masculine side, but also me being enthusiastic to her direction. She likes for me to stay in contact with her through her work day and to be thoughtful during the times we have together. Our marriage has developed into a form she enjoys and my part is to become the way she wants me to be. In this following of her direction, I feel submissive pleasure.

I do not know if this is a complete list, but it is an attempt and wanted to try to put these into writing.  I have so many oppertunities to live my dream of overt submission and I am thankful for the oppertunity.

Triathlon Training:

Tonight, my wife left work and went straight to exercise. Also, she signed up with a personal trainer near her work, so will be doing so more often. Yesterday, her new triathlon racing bike arrived and I put it together for her. As her training routine increases for her next race, I will be home in the supporting role more often. Last week, I was looking for a place to put my CB-6Ks keys to get them out of the house when my wife was gone. Her purse has a place she hangs the mail box key and I added them there. It kinda works well this way, because anytime she is out with her purse, I do not have access to the keys.

There is really no place I have not warn my CB-6Ks. It has been on during this past weekend for the out of town trip, it has been on shopping, I have warn it to work, to church, around the house, to sleep, and just about every other place. I kinda wish my wife would just loose the keys out of her purse during this training period. I should probably be careful what I wish for though, cause they may not come back after.

With her upcoming training schedule demands keeping me at home in the coming weeks, it is good to know I will be kept chaste in service to her and be docile to her requests. I know she will find it helpful. I also think I am to the point where the frustration of my lengthening chastity cycle is helping keep my subservience just below the surface.

Weekend Submissive Life:

Yesterday, I knew my wife was planning on taking the family to her brother’s house in the afternoon. I knew I needed to do my domestic things before then. After I served my wife her breakfast, she put her feet (one foot at a time) in my lap for me to massage them. We both enjoyed the time. When she had her fill, I went to the washroom and had a pretty good size wet spot from pre-cum. Massaging her feet and seeing her enjoy it when I hit the spots just right my body responds with sexual pleasure. I then finished the ironing while she took her morning shower.

We went to her brothers for her nephew's first birthday. We returned home about ten at night and I put the children to sleep. The next morning, I was pretty sure was going to be a day around the house. I started by fixing pancakes for my wife and the children. When I was done cleaning up after that, I began planning the rest of the day. The big piece of the day was around the meals. I have been reading the Martha Stewart book and also had just finished this month’s Martha Stewart magazine. I recommended to my wife that meals be made more elegant to help with improving the children’s manners. It is something we have been working on. My wife agreed, but said only on Sundays.

I started off by putting the table linins to wash and trying to come up with a table layout Martha would be proud of. After a few combinations, I settled on one that looked pretty good. I then got started on Lunch. It was a simple rice & sausage dish and cooked in the rice cooker while I could turn my attention to dinner. I knew what I was going to do for the main course. It is a chicken dish prepared in the slow cooker that I had all the ingredients for. I also wanted to cook some fresh bread and something for desert. I first found a recipe for potato & pepper rolls. That was pretty easy, but I got stuck on desert. Everything I found was to serve 10-12. We are only four and the youngest doesn’t eat much. After much distress over it, I found a flan that seemed about right.

The afternoon was spent first cleaning up lunch and then starting in on the rolls and main course. Once I had the rolls out of the oven, I started the desert. I had never made anything like that before, but luckily my wife had. I couldn’t tell when it was done, and my wife showed me how to tell by putting a knife in the middle and seeing what it looked like when it came out. She said like scrabbled egg consistency and the rest would finish in the fridge.

I finished the preparations for dinner and was folding the now clean table linins. My wife was watching me do so while she was drinking a beer. She remarked how it was weird seeing me fold the table linins while she drank a beer and told me to come over there. She gave my ass a good “wap” and laughed at the situation.

Diner and desert went well. The goal of helping teach the children manners by making the meal more formal seemed to have gone well. Also, my wife seemed to enjoy the time together and the food. She remarked on things she liked and others she would of like different. When it was done and I was cleaning up, she came into the kitchen, gave me a long and smoky kiss and told me “good job”. That felt good. All in all, the weekend seems to have gone well.

Chastity:

Two nights ago, my wife played with me while we lie in bed and kept going to give me an orgasm. It had been six weeks and felt great. When I had been kept chaste a long duration and subsequent to an orgasm, I would sometimes break my chastity commitment in the days after. It is something hard to describe why.

This morning I woke up horny, but wearing my CB-6Ks. It works to get over the urge to follow up with a few additional ones after my wife decided to give me “one”. Since my chastity is hers to decide, being in a CB-6Ks I find appropriate. It allows my wife to decide on durations and see the subtle changes without concern for me messing up what she is doing.

I had thought about using a CB and as a submissive it can be a fulfilling experience. I have heard it sometime referred to as a training tool. After about a year on prolonged cycles, it sometimes is no longer needed. Other times, it is routinely used. For me going into longer duration chastity cycles, I do welcome it. I do see how my behavior improves on longer chastity cycles and find it necessary.

The CB-6Ks is comfortable. I do not feel pain when I get aroused. It simply prevents arousal to lead to an orgasm by covering the areas that need to be further stimulated. I have worked its use into my daily routine and really, there isn't hardly any difference. Basically, all I need to do is clean it when I take a shower and put lotion around it to prevent chaffing. That's about it.

I think for submissive men who live in shorter cycles, it may still be something helpful as a training tool. Holding the key to a submissive man’s chastity device tells him you are caring for him by helping him stay chaste for you. This is the same if it is a three day commitment or a three month.

I feel chastity an important disparity principle in a D/s relationship. As a submissive, the CB-6Ks works to provide the disparity pleasure I find I seek. Doing chores, providing service, enjoying when she gets off, being on an allowance, all of these are ways as a submissive I feel disparity pleasure. Chastity also is a pleasure submitting myself to.

Literotica:

I am please to say, the Literotica site had decided to publish one of my works of fiction. This is something that I am very appreciative to them for. They have a good reputation for publishing quality works. It is a rather simple short story, but that does fit the model of types of things they tend to publish.

The web-site http://tags.literotica.com/ organizes content by categories. It allows for selecting an overall category and then further filtering to find specific works which the visitor enjoys most. It has been a concept that seems to work well, as the site has been around a long time. I do encourage browsing through the tags to come up with works of fiction you enjoy.

I have linked my story published by them down below in my “Fiction” section. It is the one titled “Chastity Fiction”. Thank you Literotica for placing my work onto your system to be enjoyed by your visitors. It is greatly appreciated.

The Male Submissive:

I have harbored the desire to live as my wife’s submissive for a long time. For the last almost two years, I have been allowed to do so under my wife’s acknowledgement. My perspective of the male submissive come from my own experience living in touch with my submissive traits. In order to express my views of the male submissive I felt I should write my thoughts out.  Below are some ideas I think are foundational to the male submissive.  I also think by me expressing my ideas, perhaps other men may come to terms with their own submissive traits and woman may understand the male submissive better.

Often, outsiders question what does the submissive get from living in a D/s relationship. It seems as though the Dominant gets everything, (obedience, freedom, an unencumbered lifestyle). This initial reaction I have found is common. The answer for me is quite simple. I get intense pleasure. Much more so then I had thought before our transition into my overt submission. The pleasure and contentment I feel is liberating and fulfilling. It occurs under the control of my wife and comes in a whole plethora of ways.

The male submissive looks to their female dominant to provide obligatory service. This has two sides, "Service" and "Obligation". Obligatory aspects can be instilled from domestic discipline, orgasm denial, withdrawal of the submissive’s sense of authority, or a few other methods. Obligation verses a simple following requests is an important distinction. A request followed through does not have the same effect of satisfying the male submissive as a request under obligation.

Service is opportunities to live in disparity. Again, a foundational concept for contentment of the male submissive. Delegation of chores, removal of access to finances, having to satisfy whims of the dominant (be it massages, pedicures, or anything else) all are ways service can be expressed. Disparity is another way of saying this and can be experienced in acts that express the status of the submissive. For instance, a male submissive gains disparity pleasure from kissing the feet or anus of their dominant. From being told to sit on the floor while the dominant sits on a comfortable chair or couch is another example or from satisfying the dominant's sexual cravings while being denied anything in return. There are many other ways service or disparity can be experienced, but it is foundational for a contented submissive male.

A male submissive is therefore experiencing pleasure while living in obligatory service to their female dominant. It is in no way un-fair or a situation for concern. The male submissive experiences contentment in submitting. The words “Go wash my car. It is dirty.” cause pleasure as the male submissive stands and gathers the cleaning supplies to comply.

Chastity Fiction #2:

I woke up today at my usual 5:20am. I quickly got out of bed and reset the clock for the next morning. My wife did not give indication of noticing and continued to sleep undisturbed. It always gives me relief to get past this point in my morning. I do not like for her sleep to be interrupted.

I made my way into the adjacent bathroom, removed my clothes, and started the shower. After putting my pajamas away, I quickly went pee and then got into the shower. I made sure I took care of everything in the shower, (shampoo, body wash, shaving). I also did my daily maintenance cleaning of my chastity device, working the body wash around the ring. I find I can keep it pristine clean this way. So far, so good. It has been eleven weeks, two days since I last was let out.

After my shower, I dried off, and began the rest of my morning routine. Teeth, lotion around the chastity device to prevent chaffing, hair gel, putting on under garments. I then went out and put on the rest of my clothes before leaving my wife to continue to sleep. As I quietly closed the bedroom door, I sighed with a sense of relief that I did not disturb her once again. I have gotten pretty good at it by now.

My wife enjoys breakfast being ready when she comes down in the morning. I start each day by first empting the dishwasher and then setting the table for that morning’s meal. My wife has directed me to serve her an organic cereal blend with organic yogurt on the side. Almond milk for the cereal and room temperature cream for her coffee. Our two children are served a variety of things. Today is french toast from the freezer. After the dishwasher is emptied and the table set, I start in on the meal. It takes about 15 minutes, followed by getting together my wife’s lunch for her day at work. She eats organic frozen meals with some snack packs. She finds it helps to keep her caloric intake down.

When the table is set, I go upstairs and wake the children to get them ready for their school day. My wife has told me to have them dressed and ready for breakfast when she comes down. It only takes a few minutes before both are awake and started in on their getting themselves dressed. I then go back downstairs.

While I am waiting for everyone to come to breakfast, I prepare my wife’s coffee and a cup of tea for myself. I then begin the day’s calorie journal. My wife has told me to count all the calories she eats each day and I keep a journal book to do so. 240 for the cereal, 45 for the almond milk, 90 for the yogurt, 80 for the cream in her coffee. As I finish, my wife arrives with the children in tow.

Everyone comes and sits for the morning meal. My wife is at the head of the table. We live in a D/s relationship. I am the submissive and she the Dominant. I feel a pleasure in the situation that is difficult to describe. The feeling is like an anticipation being met, or what it is like just before an orgasm. Warm and exciting. It happens often through my day and normally last about ten to twenty minutes. Normally, when I am feeling my wife’s power over me. This can be as simple as me recognizing the disparity in our relationship while I am doing a chore, or as obvious as her telling me to massage her feet. I find I seek feeling this pleasure through my day.

As the meal is finished, the children follow their routine of clearing the table and going to brush their teeth. My wife and I are left to discuss the upcoming day. Today, my wife tells me she may go out with some of her friends from work, but would decide later. I never know if she will be home after work, so I had transitioned to preparing things for her dinner that could be stored if she came home late instead. I had worked her dinner recipe collection over several months and had it to where I could make her things she enjoys, but that need not be eaten right then.

My wife kisses me good bye and takes the youngest child to daycare. I wait around for the older to go to the bus stop. While I wait, I go up to straighten the bedroom. I fold my wife’s pajamas, straighten the bed, and check the children’s rooms. I then return to finish cleaning up from the meal. As I am wiping down the kitchen counters, our eldest heads off to the bus stop. I get my briefcase and then head off to work.

I work for a high technology company in an office complex. The relaxed dress code works well for life in a chastity device. I wear a CB-6000s and in truth, even if the dress was business formal, it would still be unnoticeable, but in jeans and a dress shirt, it just feels more comfortable for some reason. No one has ever given any indication of noticing.

About 10:30, my phone rings and it is my wife. She asks how my day is going and I tell her about the project I am currently working on. There is a pause in the conversation and I hear a jingle. She asks me if I know what that is. I do. She keeps the keys to my CB-6Ks there at her work. Her office is protected through badge access and security guards. There is no way for me to get at them there, and she knows it. She had found a long time ago that I am happier when she taunts me frequently. I do notice that it causes my submissive pleasure to occur any time she does. I feel building elation as she says, “And this is the sound of them going back in my drawer.” I hear a drawer shut on the other side of the line and my wife saying good bye to end the conversation.

My wife has discovered that she enjoys keeping me chaste for long durations. She also has discovered that I enjoy it too. She found that when she has me go down on her, I get off as much as she does. She kind of turned it into a reward system for me while keeping me chaste. She will first prompt me when she wants me to start and then direct where she wants me to focus and what techniques to use. She normally enjoys it to last a long time before going over the edge and slows me down when she gets close. Later she has me keep going until she shudders in pleasure. When she does, I too feel a flood of pleasure. It has developed into a time I always look forward to.

Inside a D/s relationship has been more fulfilling then I had imagined. We made the transition over four years ago. At first it took some time to adjust out of our equality dynamic. Once we both began to enjoy our new roles my pleasure really deepened. It was about two years ago that I first put on my chastity device. Initially, it was something I kept on for about three days, but my wife saw that I was comfortable and began to increase the durations. I am currently kept in about three months each time. Sometimes though, my wife will surprise me and let me out a little early. Other times, it takes longer.

Since I orgasm quickly once let out, intercourse has not been something my wife has asked of me. She enjoys my going down on her through the week. A few times she has taken it all the way with a guy. She tells me about it after. She just likes the different feelings that it brings, but most of the time she tells me she can be satisfied with what I do for her. I find when she shares with me her times with other guys, it floods me with pleasure. Knowing how much she gets to enjoy it turns me on something fierce. I am so happy she feels free to do so and share it with me.

I couldn’t be happier in our relationship as the submissive. Tonight I am looking forward to feeling some of the pleasure when I start the laundry. I will first feed the children dinner, bath them, and put them to sleep. After I start the laundry, I will get something small prepared for my wife, incase she is hungry when she comes home. Also, while I am waiting for her to come home, as the night draws on, my fantasies will drift to her escalating a sexual encounter with someone she is out with and maybe when she gets home, she will have me go down on her before bed and tell me about it. I do not know what will happen, but I am a submissive husband who is so happy to have a wife who enjoys keeping me chaste and doing as she likes.

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My Wife's First Triathlon:

This morning I got up at five, prepared my wife her breakfast and wished her well. She needed to be at the race about 6:45am to prepare for the 8:00am start. After she left, I prepared breakfast for the children and took care of getting them ready to go to the race site. I brought some water for them and a snack. We were out the door about 7:00.

The trip was about forty-five minutes and at a wooded park with a large lake. When we arrived, the racers were queued up for their staggered start. The swim course was about 100 feet off shore, running parallel. The children and I found a spot where the racers would cross right in front of us. The children waded into the early morning water and shortly before the race began, I caught a view of my wife waving at us through the competitors.

The swim was 1k meters in open fresh water. Anyone who has done it, knows it is the hardest water to swim in. Fresh water does not have the buoyancy of salt water, nor the smoothness of pool water. She knocked it out in twenty minutes, placing her ninth in the catagory. I caught a photo of her as she approached the transition area. She looked tired.

The children and I headed over to the field that served as the finish line. On our way, we crossed paths with a bloodied bike rider with an attendant carrying her mangled bike back for her. It gave me pause. I did two triathlons as a teen and I know the course does not lend itself to civility. Accidents are pretty common. Nothing I could do, but wait at the finish line.

I kept the children entertained in the field as other competitors began to make it to the end of the course. I used the festivity of it to keep them engaged. When I suspected my wife would have been getting close, I migrated our position further up the course to catch sight of my wife as she began to make it into the home stretch. Sooner then I expected, I saw what I thought was her. She had a triathlon suit and white hat, but that outfit was pretty common. Once she came into focus, I got the excitement and called out in encouragement. I kept the youngest back from instinctively going to mommy as she ran past and made the turn into the home stretch.

Several of her co-workers joined in cheering when she approached the finish line in a last gasp sprint. I was so proud. Once home, I made her lunch, washed her clothes, and took care of putting her things away. Her one request, four Advil. ;-}

The whole day made me feel subservient and under the authority of a commanding dominant. It also made me fantastically proud of who my wife is becoming. The WLM is really allowing her to blossom into her leadership and discovering her interests with the chance to pursue them unencumbered, knowing I am available to be directed in support of her reaching goals she wants to see accomplished.

Ehh Emm:

Pls don’t tell me I am the only one who noticed. It would take a massive amount of delusion to not recognize the paradigm shift in our society where female leadership is accepted as an appropriate situation. I personally see too glimmers of where it is deemed preferable, the definition of which is "Matriarchy".

Pleasure Replacement:

A few nights ago, my wife prompted me to go down on her. I love when she lets me. It is a treat I look forward to. She enjoys having it last and we normally take about half an hour or so before she goes over the edge.

I am over a month chaste. After we finished, I felt a strong sense of the munchies and went to the kitchen to get something to much on. Normally, after my once-per-month orgasm, I get the same feeling, but this time I did not have an orgasm. I just had the opportunity to give my wife one. I think psychologically the pleasure I got from an orgasm is now gotten from giving my wife one. I guess it takes about a month of chastity to reach this point. It took me a day to recognize it. I thought, “hey, I had the post-orgasm munchies, but I didn’t have one”. Thinking it through, I am sure it is because of this change.

My wife does treat me with the opportunity to go down on her when I behave well. Living in prolonged chastity, it becomes the replacement for my penile orgasm and instead is a flood of submissive pleasure at being given the opportunity to do so for her. This flood of pleasure is the “orgasm” replacement. I find I crave going down on her just as much, if not more then the release I feel from my own.

I wanted to put my thoughts into a blog post to get them into writing.

And So It Goes On:

Well it looks like I am further along in chastity now then I have been since we started the WLM dynamic. Also, it looks like it will be a long while until my next orgasm. It makes me feel good to know I am living in servitude and being kept chaste. I really am more attentive and less contentious this way. That does make me feel good. I am horny a lot too. It lets me feel submissive to know I am being kept chaste this way. A twisted form of enjoyment.

My wife is in her last week of training before her first triathlon. Last night she ran at the YMCA. When she came home, I was in the bedroom and there is something about seeing her come home from exercise that arouses me. She proceeded to take off her sweaty exercise clothes and stand and talk to me while she was nude. Her body glistened with the sheen of sweat. Plus, all the exercise has made her fit and tone. It was difficult not to stammer in the conversation.

Our eldest child got into some trouble at his summer camp. I am managing keeping him grounded according to my wife’s directions. It is defently something that needed immediate attention. She had a conversation with me about it to find out what I thought was a good response, but then decided for something different. I am really glad in times like these my wife is the leader. She is a better decision maker and our family is better for it.

As my chastity continues, I am content (well maybe content is not the right word) to be a chaste husband in service to my wife. Knowing she is free to feel pleasure at any time and I am to be kept chaste is the foundation of the relationship for me. Her pleasure how ever she enjoys is what we both seek.  It is a slow process to get use to, but we are getting better at it.  Understanding that she has the liberty and I the servitude is a way for us to both enjoy our lives.  I feel pleasure when she enjoys herself, and she knows it, so she does so whenever she likes.

Sometimes her pleasure is in being able to peruse her exercise routine however she wants and whenever she wants. Other times, a long massage while she reads or watches a movie. She enjoys sleeping in, and coming downstairs knowing her breakfast has been prepared the way she has directed and leisurely enjoying her morning before having to go to work. She enjoys flaunting her beauty with clothes that accentuate. When she gets that inevitable response from a passing male, she knows I feel pleasure when she shares it with me and does so. She enjoys spending money on a nice pedicure, and when she comes home points out something I missed in my responsibilities to keep our disparity evident. She enjoys having me meet her needs when she is in the mood. She enjoys her leadership and a husband who helps when she needs it, but otherwise does as told.

Weekend Transistion:

This weekend would have been my once-per-month review. As I mentioned in previous posts, this cycle is being reconsidered due to the changes I experience around the three week mark. On a four week cycle, it only leaves one week after the three week mark and instead an increase in the cycle is being considered. Even though an increase in my chastity duration is being considered, I strangely welcome the idea in a conflicted way. I do get horny often, but denial too does satisfy some of my submissive cravings. Also, I do recognize my demeanor improving to more like my wife enjoys and that too I look forward to.

My wife has her first triathlon next weekend and a second one on the horizon about a month later. It is a good time for me to be kept chaste to ensure my attitude does not get in the way of my support for her. There are many things my wife needs me to be attentive to during her training. She spends time away while training and her schedule becomes quite variable. Also, her diet changes and adapts. There are also the massages to relieve aching mussels after her training. It seems to be a good time for my chastity to continue.

If my wife decides a cycle of every other month is one she would rather see me on, I would hope she would consider a “breaking-in” period. I had read that men on this type of pattern should have their first time be three months. This makes their new pattern easier to get use to. The first time being longer helps with the adjustment. For me, this would mean chastity until the beginning of October. Not sure what the decision will be, but looks like the monthly cycle is under review until further notice.