For Mistress Christina:

Below is a comment from Mistress Christina which I thought would be easier to answer in a post:


COMMENT:

I have had a chance to read over more of your blog, I now see that you are in chastity with no hope to cum till after Christmas. WOW. I must admit that idea got me very hot and bothered...just thinking of you locked away and at her whim, and wearing that extra thing to make sure you don't get hard or try to play.

Questions though:

1...how horny are you on a daily basis?

2. How often does your wife have you pleasure her and is that normally with your mouth?

3. Is she planning to milk you at all to release some cum without letting you have a real orgasm, for health reasons?

4. What happens if you have a wet dream?

5. Do you get morning hard ons? If so how does that feel in your device with the extra thing, or does that prevent you even in your sleep?

6. How does all this make your balls feel?

7. Does your wife tease you about your situation and try to get you extra horny knowing she isn't going to let you cum for a year and the more horny you get the more serving you are?

ok that is enough for now.



ANSWER:

Mistress Christina,

Thank you for the comment. Below are the answers to your questions. Let me know if I can shed any more light, as I am happy to do so. It makes me feel exposed, which is a bit of a turn on to me. As to the x-mas date, that is not when I will be let out. It is the date my wife said she will consider a next step. If she is comfortable at that time with me being chaste, she will keep it unchanged until whenever. It may be she gives me a second year to enjoy w/o being let out in the interim. I do not believe I will be let out to cum on x-mas though. I would guess the soonest would be q1-13.

1. Very. Sometimes I go days riding what I call a plateau which is a very exhilarating experience. It is like being on the crest of an orgasm for more than a day. It feels wonderful and maddening at the same time at not being able to obtain the orgasm I so desperately desire. The feeling is hard to describe. Other times, I am horny but am not on a plateau. All in all I am a very horny man, but I find it makes me docile to my wife.

2. She has recently put her sex life on the shelf. I do not know why. She does that some times. It has been well over a month and she shows no sexual interest. Sometimes I feel it is a natural desire of hers to have a male companion who she can be with and not be burdened with sexual situations with him. A women having a man who is her sexual servant which she chooses on a daily basis to bypass seems to indicate that. Perhaps there is something in her past which makes this opportunity of comfort. I do not ask and just consider it another form of my service to her.

Other times, she uses me twice in an evening or several times per week. I personally wish she would enjoy her sexual side more, with me or perhaps another man, keeping me as her bed friend / companion. Seeing her enjoy herself brings me submissive fulfillment.  The direction of her sexual enjoyment comes from her and I comply to her wishes. Currently, she has enjoyed an interlude free of sexual interactions with me and does not seem to entertain the idea of a second guy either. As to the way she enjoys using me, it is sometimes orally, but mostly she has grown to enjoy her bullet. She cums very hard with it and with little effort. She sometimes likes to enjoy foreplay first though. Other times a prolonged massage before is of enjoyment to her.

3. Concerning the health benefits of milking, I did an extensive search. I can only find FemDom sites which refer to the practice. There are no medical sites I can find which indicate harm from chastity. In fact many suggest it healthy. Mr. Im-Hers has an advanced degree in Biology and has said he too finds no harm to chastity. Men’s bodies take care of chastity biologically.

4. As far as wet dreams go, I do not know. I do not think I can have one since the KSD-G3 causes pain well before I reach climax. I will let you know if I have one though.

5. I do get erections in the morning and during sleep. If they are prolonged, I am woken up from the pain. I calm down and then go back to sleep.

6. Balls are fine. I wish my wife was into CBT and would learn to enjoy punishing me by hurting my balls. She is rather timid in that respect though. She does grope them to cause me to have an erection. This she knows puts me into pain. That is something she seems to enjoy to some respect recently.

7. For your last question, yes she does. After her work outs she has me undress her. She seems to enjoy standing nude in front of me, knowing my plight as she often will have long discussions with me after I undress her.

Again, thank you for the comment.



-SH

P.S.- I am looking into that comment e-mail thing. Blogger is a free service and I fear there may be a hole here I will have a difficult time patching. I will try for you though.