Into The Rabbit Hole:

About two years ago, I asked my wife if my chastity duration could increase to three months. This marked the start of my chastity being semi-permanent. Since then, I have been permitted about ten orgasms per year, clustered around brief periods of release. I found strangely this a desirable pattern as there were marked changes in me while kept chaste. More importantly, my wife enjoyed it this way and she has since become accustom to me remaining her chastity slave, while she enjoys much more frequent sexual activity then I am permitted.

The one gripe I had was I frequently would seek thrills from the feeling of rubbing my penis against the inside of my cage. The CB-6000s is made of smooth plastic and when kept chaste for a prolonged period, it was a bit of a problem. I sought to counter this behavior by making my own PoI. That did work for awhile, but I was greatly anticipating the manufactured versions. Almost all chastity devices on the market come with optional spikes of one form or another. The absence of this feature from the CB-6000 sets was discouraging.

I bought the Kept for Her KSD-G3 and have been wearing it for about a week now. It is designed to prevent slip-out problems reported with some men. I experienced that when temporally using a larger ring for a spell. Using my #3 ring I can not slip out, but I thought it worthwhile to try the KSD-G3 while I wait for the PoI from A.L. Enterprises due out in Q2-12. I was delighted to find wearing the KSD-G3 is a sufficient counter for the other problem I was trying to solve.

Not only does the KSD-G3 successfully element the possibility of pull-out (there is absolutely no way to pull out of the cage while wearing it), but it also provides the counter I was seeking. There is no longer any enjoyment to rubbing my penis on the inside of my cage. In fact, prolonged erections are discouraged through a mild ache the KSD-G3 causes. It is not the sharp pain of a PoI, but there is really no way to enjoy an erection at all. For me, it is like a dream come true. I feel like the last piece of the puzzle is in place.

I am at the point of my chastity cycle now where my body really seeks gratification. It is 100% impossible to have sexual intercourse wearing a CB-6000. It is not 100% at preventing forms of sexual pleasure, especially when on prolonged cycles as a man’s penis become heightened in sensitivity. With the presences of my new friend, the KSD-G3, this is no longer the case.  It is such a welcome addition I can barely put it into words. I feel truly trapped and under my wife’s utter control. It is thrilling and a wonderful boost to my daily life. I can not thank the good folks at Kept for Her enough for making it available to the open market. It is a wonderful product.

Last night, I woke for the first time in a very long time with an erection that was aching. That use to be the case with my home made PoI, but those have been removed for awhile. Being trapped and reminded through discomfort to discourage arousal is a wonderful training tool for a chastity slave such as me. My body needs training and the tools are now in place to assist me in this. Sadly, I am one of those men who without such assistance, I am unable to maintain chastity commitments (perhaps due to my past pattern of frequent masterbation).  I see enforced chastity as a gift my wife has given me. Mr. Ric C. said his wife has decided to give him a year of chastity. I told him it was a great gift she had given him. My birthday is next week and perhaps my wife would find it in her to give me the same.

I feel I am ready for such a commitment and to enjoy instead when my wife gets sexual pleasure, as it is her liberty to whenever she wishes while enjoying a dutiful husband who she keeps chaste.  She has become more erotic recently and as a submissive, I feel a great deal of enjoyment when she withholds me while enjoying what I am not permitted to.  It is one of the ways she is comfortable expressing our D/s bond and to me a year of it would be a wonderful gift.