My birthday landed on the weekend. The night before, my wife took me and the family out to dinner at my favorite restaurant, Ruby Tuesdays. I had a full rack of baby back ribs. They were awesome. When we were going to sleep, my wife let me know she expected me to cook her breakfast on my birthday morning. It was her way of giving me a submissive treat. My mother sent me a cookbook as a birthday present and my wife had a fun time ridiculing me about me being a girl who got a cookbook for her birthday. She told me she wanted to have her breakfast from one of my recipes from my new cookbook that my mother sent me. I complied with a yogurt and granola parfait.
My wife choose not to commit to a one year chastity duration for me. She likes the option of giving me an orgasm to counter increasing effeminate behavior while on prolonged chastity. That to me was a bit of a let down, as I feel I am ready for a 1 year commitment and am wanting to give it a try. I concede to her authority though. She did say she will see how it goes and did not rule out that I may end up locked for a year. She said it is kinda up to me as to if I can keep from becoming too effeminate. She likes it when I am chaste and docile, but not effeminate and has found so far about six months to be about right for me. She said to accomidate my request she may go longer this time though and see if she can take me to the one year time frame.
The KSD-G3 is a bitch of a task mistress. Erections hurt, but as someone who needs to retrain my body, the skinneristic tool is welcome, I have to admit. I know it is not as popular of a device as others and wanted to provide these pictures.
This is looking into an empty tube to see how it pushes down on the top of an erection to cause the counter effect..
This is looking at a tube with my penis in it to show the indentation the device causes. Kinda hard to see through the plastic, but with the two pictures, I think you can get the idea.
I can assure you, it works well. I do not enjoy erections and wake up a few times each night having to think boaring thoughts to get rid of the ache.
When the KSD-G3 is ordered, three sizes come (A, B, and C). I tried the "B" size, but had to move to the "A" since the "B" was too constricting for me. A man would have to have an amazingly small penis to be able to tolerate the "C" size.
My wife gave me The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Anne Rice over the holidays. It is a classic D/s novel series. I am to the point now in the first book where Beauty has been brought to the Prince's castle and is being introduced to the other submissives (male and female). Ms. Rice does a wonderful job of portraying the submissive mindset in her characters. It is enjoyable to read as one and I am thankful for my wife buying it for me.
I have been told by my wife to continue to publish on Mr. Indy's caption sites. I had stopped pending her evaluation and decision if I should proceed or not. She enjoys me putting my submissive skills to use in a way that provides a modest income. Mr. Indy makes the checks payable to her and I never get to have access to any of the money. It is a very modest amount, but I think she has found it a fun way to enjoy putting me to use. I will be adding more caption post to his site in the coming months, per her request. I am to do so until she says otherwise.




16 comments:
It is great to see your level of commitment. A very happy birthday to you.
~ Odin
Happy Birthday SH. Hope you had an enjoyable day with family and I look forward to reading about the year to come from your perspective. Happy Birthday!
Mr. O & Mr. IH,
yes, it was a delightful weekend. Thank you.
;-}
-SH
Happy Birthday! Take it no orgasms like last year!?!
Happy Birthday!
Happy Brithday!
As an aside, my wife and I saw a movie called "sleeping Beauty" that involved a girl being voluntarilly drugged to make her sleep and then men pawing over her. Kind off odd.
On the orgasm thing, I think my wife feels that there is something wrong with her if I don't want to orgasm. Like I feel weak if I can not bring her to orgasm, I think she feels similarly in some way. FYI.
Mr. SMH,
Never heard of that movie. I understand the original Sleeping Beauty on which Walt Disney based his cartoon, left the impression on which Anne Rice based her trilogy. I can see how a move based on the original text also has a similar context as her books, in that respect, but I have never read the original and this is just conjecture.
As to your orgasms, I understand you and I are quite different. You are able to remain without an orgasm for as long as your wife directs while having intercourse. I am not the same. I can typically only hold out for a few strokes. Even shorted if I have been kept chaste a few days. Me being able to orgasm is really not the problem. Instead, there are benefits to me remaining chaste. For instance, I have recently crossed the three week mark and feel much better as a result. My wife can attest, I tend to be more combative in the days and weeks after orgasm. I am still submissively compliant, but there is an inner struggle which ends at three weeks of chastity.
Take care and thank you for the birthday well wishes.
;-}
-SH
Mr. LH,
The clock in the blog records the time since my last orgasm. My wife reiterated last night it may well be twelve months until my next one.
Mr. Bob,
THANKS!
-SH
Happy birthday!
Did your wife or kids give you a gift?
I have bought cookbooks or cooking magazines and one time the assistant handed it directly to my wife. She thought that was funny.
I had traditionally received a blowjob on my birthday and our anniversary. My wife got mad at me for asking this year. I guess those days are past.
Cheers!
Mr LTS,
Yes, I got many nice gifts. It was a really good birthday.
As to blowjobs, I have not received one for over a decade. On the flip side I have given a great deal of oral sex to my wife. To me it speaks to the dispaiarity as giving oral sex is for the sexual enjoyment of the one receiving. In my case, when my wife permits me to, I also feel a great deal of submissive bliss and as such, it is a kind of treat she gives me (the opportunity to give her oral sex) Twisted, I know, but that is how it is for us.
-SH
How often are you allowed to pleasure your wife with oral sex? I would imagine that being locked 24/7 without any stimulation that those times are incredibly important and emotionally intense to you. First, to be able to pleasure/please her sexually, and second to make an intimate connection with your wife.
Mr. LH,
I am allowed to pleasure her as often as she wants. Sometimes that is several times per week. Other times it is only once every few months. The change is now it is an extension of her sincere sexual desires. This is how it should be in a D/s F/m relationship, IMHO. The Dominant free of obligation and encouraged to follow a path they enjoy, using their submissive in that pursuit in whatever way suits them best.
When she cums, I do feel a great deal of contentment and submissive pleasure. I have learned to not instigate, but instead wait passively until her desire strikes as her sincerity is a component that I find makes it of even more enjoyment to me in return.
If a submissive man enters a D/s relationship with a women who had been sexually abused and as such has developed an aversion to sexual pleasure, his role as her submissive may well be a healing vehicle for her to again find enjoyment in her sexual side that was scared from the abuse. In that case, it may well be another form of service the submissive man can provide to his dominant. The approach of staving off his own desire for sexual physical contact and instead wait for the dominant women to gain her footing is something I think some submissive men may find of comfort in their subservient role to their dominants. I could argue it should always be that way too. Some may differ, but it is a small point.
Take care.
-SH
Mr. s-h,
Very well said. It has taken me a while to understand that my role in our intimate life is as a tool to bring my wife satisfaction. I still make myself available and show her how desirable she is often. However, I have learned not to suggest sex ever. My wife knows I am always horny (she controls my orgasms) and will be sure to let me know when the mood is right.
I, personally, think that allowing a dominant complete control of your sex life is of paramount importance to establishing a strong D/s relationship.
Mr S2DM,
I have come to agree.
Thank you for taking the time to comment. It is encouraging to me.
-SH
Are you concerned about the health issue of not being allowed to cum for one year? Is there any to really be concerned with? My wife keeps me horny with alot of T & D and no orgasms for a minimum of six weeks. She adds alot of weeks on for poor housework or behavior, as well as corner time, tied in her closet time and alot of additional housework. Sometimes she will not allow me an orgasm until 10 to 12 weeks. I do get concerned about prostate health with that little frequency.
I had one wet dream about two years ago and my wife was furious with me. She said I could have stopped it if I wanted to. I pleaded how it occurs during sleep, but she said I was thinking about cumming too much before sleep. I was punished for an additional six weeks. I was given an hour of corner time every day while only wearing my panties and was tied up for three hours in her walk in closet every Saturday afternoon. And no tv (sports). Plus 6 weeks were added to my wait time. And I never did so much housework over and over again, the samr jobs for an entire day. But she says it worked, no more wet dreams.
Mr. AH,
If it is of concern to you, ask your doctor if there are any ill effect to not cumming. I am confident the answer will be a quick ‘no’ w/o hesitation. The idea that a man must cum or suffer ill medical effects has no backing. If it did, there would be public service campaigns enforcing routine orgasms for men.
-SH
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