Monday, November 28, 2011

Thanksgiving Week:



Well, that was an amazingly busy holiday week.

There was a family trip planned to my sister’s house for Thanksgiving. She lives with her husband, an eight hour drive from where we live. My wife told me she wanted to leave on Thursday at 6:30am. Not only did I have to get up extra early that day, but I needed to do my chores and pack the day before. My wife had scheduled me to take time off of work so I could get everything done. She went out and did some shopping and took her car in for a tune up that day.

My sister did a wonderful job hosting. There were a total of three holiday meals prepared in three successive days, with somewhere between ten and thirty people attending each meal. We were in a two room hotel suite close by, but spent most of our time at my sister's house. The children enjoyed themselves and it turned out to be a really nice family vacation. The return put us home about 7:00pm Sunday night. After a rather long time deliberately putting things away, I got to sleep about 10:30.

The vacation had very little D/s. Most of the time was accounted for in group activities at my sister’s house. My wife did express her dominant role while back at the hotel. She would have me undress her while I kneeled on the floor and also expect the busy work be completed by me. Since there was a kitchenette in our suite, I did the little cooking needed while we were there and also kept the room tidy. I also oversaw the children getting ready and unpacking/packing. My wife did none of those. I did help my sister with the mountain of dishes, but I find that hardly worth noting in a D/s context as men doing kitchen duty on thanksgiving is pretty unremarkable now a days.

We are back home and looking forward to the week ahead. I see A.L. enterprises still has not released the PoI for the CB-6000. My #3 ring broke last week and I am waiting on replacing it until the PoI come out so I can get them both on one order. Until then I am using the #2 ring. I tried the #4 ring, but it was just too small. There was some enjoyable CBT effects, but the ring caused a slight laceration since it was so tight. The compacting in response to erections was a little too much and the skin became broken where it contacted the ring. It was nothing that wasn’t back to normal in a day, but just too much to keep going. That was unfortunate as I enjoyed the CBT effect. I am really looking forward to the manufactured PoI to help provide that. Hopefully it will not be too much longer.

3 comments:

At all Times said...

Glad to hear that you had a good holiday break, and that you enjoyed a more subtle form of D/s. It can't always be full on, and you have to learn to accpet and appreciate those moments when they happen.

SometimesSpanked said...

Mr. SH- Glad to hear you had a good Thanksgiving trip for the whole family. I guess you're back into your routine now. :) Glad your Wife gave you a little guidance in the hotel.

I have to thank my Wife here. After Her busy week, She took time this morning to help me fix the Dyson vacuum cleaner. Geez, I don't know why that is so hard for me to figure it out! But She fixes things effortlessly, it seems. Sigh. This, after She'd driven son up to get drivers license too...and She has work to do this weekend.
Well, I got the vacuuming done after Her help. I have to admit, my cockette DID get a surge of hardness when She lifted this big wooden chair so I could vacuum under it. :)
At least I got my run in earlier, to stay in shape for Her use.
Thanks for listening...knew you'd understand. :)

Hoping you're having a good and productive day there! :)

Anonymous said...

Here is another post from
Ms. Zoe:

Thank you "a male" you are so sweet. Sorry for the delay in posting but I was away at Thanksgiving.

In Your relationship with Your
husband did You pursue him at the start?

No, I never pursue a man...never needed too.

Does he address You with a special name?

He calls me Ma'am or Miss Zoe.

Do You practice any Femdom rituals?

Not really. He must ask for permission to leave the dinner table...or got to the toilet.

Do You share Feminine interests with him?

Yes, he reads only women's magazines and knows all the latest fashion trends. We talk about all the things I would talk to a girlfriend or my sisters about. We never talk sports unless there is a hot baseball player on the TV.

Do You make him bare his soul to You?

Yes, we are very intense about feelings and what he wants to do. He tells me everything...rather like a mother with a spoilt child.

Do You think a submissive male is less masculine?

Sometimes a sub is less masculine...I'd say Tom, my husband
is more girly than manly. He sometimes thinks he is as good as any other man but then I help him open a jar or get something down from a high shelf or explain something about economics from CNN and he knows he is a sissy boy.

Do You let him out of the CB3000?

I consider it on the first Monday of each month....sometimes the answer is yes, sometimes no....depends on my mood and his behaviour....He mustn't ask to be let out...if he ever did he knows the answer would be no.

Does Your husband NEED Your domination?

You'd have to ask him...but I think he does...how else would he know how to please me?

What do You have him do when You are with Your lover?

He has plenty of chores to do. He sometimes takes their car and fills it with petrol and puts it through the car wash. Sometimes I send him out on an errand...or he goes into the yard and wanders around.

Is there a spiritual dimension to Female domination?

Perhaps, I am worshipped by Tom...he looks forward to adoring my feet after a long day...he even likes to have a shrine to me in his room...with a photograph, some old pantyhose and an old blouse I don't wear.

Could there be a Female dominant religion?

Maybe, an interesting idea.

Is it appropriate to punish males for their
history of transgressions against Women?

No, it would be unfair. Some men are perfectly fine, not all men are rapists.

What can a submissive male do to honor all Women?

Three things...obey at all times, submit your will to theirs and worship the ground they walk on.

What would the ideal Female dominant wedding
be like

When we got married we had 2 ceremonies. The first was a church wedding. I didn't promise to obey but I wore a lovely white gown and Tom was handsome in a black suit.

The second ceremony was privately at home with members of the Femdom community. He wore white and promsed to obey and to worship me.
All the men served at table and ate after the girls.

Both ceremonies were beautiful.

Hope this is ok for you "a man".

Love

Zoe.