D/s Update:

Several months ago, my wife put the brakes on the number of my blog posts. I am now limited to one per week. I found my posts moved away from personal accounts as might be found in a diary. Instead, since I had a week to think about each post I tended to author philosophical subjects with little to no account of my daily routine. Although I do enjoy vetting topics in that manner, I found I sort of missed the daily accounts too.

My last post was taken by a few commenters as an account of my current status-quo. Instead it was again a philosophical vetting of my views surrounding submissive neglect. In retrospect, I could see how that slant could be taken, but regardless I was going to devote this post to recapping my submissive role from a completely non-philosophical view.

My wife has successfully transitioned from unemployment into the position of High School teacher. For me the change has the practical effect of moving my wake up time to 4:40am. This gives me enough time to shower, and prepare my wife’s breakfast and lunch for the day. She comes downstairs at 5:40am and leaves at 6:00am. Also, when she comes home, she is very busy with grading, planning, and other school work. She works a lot of hours in stark contrast to her stint on unemployment. It lead to a period of submissive neglect feelings about a month ago, but my wife and I had a discussion and since then she and I have been working on finding new ways to incorporate D/s into our busy lives. Some my wife has been working on herself is to liberally express when she is angry with me, and even did so one time with a follow-up punishment. I had to write 150 lines of “I will do what my wife says”.

For my part, I have been staving off submissive neglect many ways. The one that seems most prominent recently is the effect from my home made PoI. I can’t wait for the manufactured ones to become available, but until then these work pretty good. I feel a countering pain during erections. My wife sometimes enjoys exciting me to cause the effect she knows I feel in it. I have to admit, the pain is a welcome addition to the bondage effect the chastity device provides. This is something I think only a submissive could understand. Perhaps there are some out there who could relate.

Another one I use on occasion is my submissive ritual. When I do it, it is at night and I kneel on hard tile while I hand write my rules by candle light. I wear binder clips as nipple clamps while I do. That adds quite a bit of pain on top of the hard floor tiles, but anyone who knows the effect of nipple clamps knows the pain can be endured until they are removed. Taking nipple clamps off is an amazing experience. As the blood moves back there is an incredible pain effect that is hard to describe. It is an exquisite feeling for a masochist and the good news is it never leaves any marks. Wonderful.

My wife tells me I should expect to remain chaste for six months. She finds if she keeps me chaste too long, I become a fairy. She has decided to enjoy me in pretty much permanent chastity with maintenance releases twice per year to stave off the inner sissy from taking over. I actually have no way of knowing if she ever chooses to forgo one of the semi-annual releases to let me suffer a bit or not. I suspect she may for fun once or twice. Time will tell.

Our youngest son is turning six this week. Our eldest turned eleven last month. My wife orchestrated parties for both, using me to do the work. She did bake the cake, but otherwise enjoyed using my serviced to order things according to her directions. It has been a fun few months under my wife’s authority.