Monday, July 11, 2011
For instance, she has shown glimmers of sadistic behavior with me. Albeit brief and fleeting, she will tease me to acute arousal to enjoy the glint of torment it brings to me. When she does, it makes me feel embarrassed and slightly humiliated. She has said she likes it when I feel this way and has found it something new she has come to enjoy.
Dominance is defined as, “Overlooking and commanding from a superior position”. My wife is superior to me. I am thankful for things she does to help me remember this truth. Things like delegation of chores, keeping money that I earn withheld from me, having me kneel in her presence, and many others are ways she provides me reminders of her superiority over me. Again, these are things I am tremendously grateful for. It is my tendency to forget that my wife is my dominant partner. I do well being submissive to her. The meager service I am able to provide her leadership in the relationship is but my small part. My obedience to her and my gift of service submission to do with as she may enjoy is what I offer. Her willingness to use this is a gift she provides to me as a way I can enjoy my submissive pleasure. It is the cultivating in her husband the enjoyment of submissive pleasure (to the absence of other pleasures) that makes a dominant wife successful, as the husband is directed into a life of contented service.
Posted by subservient-husband at 8:16 PM