Friday, April 8, 2011
With my wife’s decision to keep me in long term chastity since the fall of last year (I have only been let out once since), I have had the opportunity to experience the effects for the first time in my life. Recently, I have been horny a lot. I find in extended chastity I go through phases. I am always easily aroused, but there are definite periods where I am horny for days on end. These are days that it almost feels like I am continually making love to my wife without ever achieving the ending orgasm and it is a wonderful thing to experience. It allows me an inner joy and pleasure that outwardly comes across as being wrapped around my wife’s finger. In a word, ‘docile’.
I think I have enough experience in extended chastity to also put into words another subtlety I have discovered. Women are well known to be more empathetic. IMHO, it is one of the several skills they have that make them more of value in today’s society. I think in-part this is due to their awareness of subtle changes in their bodies stemming from their monthly cycles. This routine awareness also makes them aware of others and subtleties in them as well. For men, this is absent.
changes in brain chemistry brought on by orgasm have a deading effect on emotional sensitivity and subtle awareness. It is an effect of biology that men were needed for defense and physically challenging aspects that a numbing of the emotional senses is helpful with as well as the feeling of being disconnected from biological subtleties.
I believe a submissive man (and dare I say all men) in a marriage, should be witheld frequent orgasms. A chastity device may well be needed to accomplish this. We are no longer needed in the same hunter-gatherer mode. A man is best served in a domestic setting when kept horny and chaste. I do recommend other couples try an extended chastity test period to see if what I suggest is not true. The man will undoubtedly become less argumentative, more sensitive, and docile to the woman he serves.
Posted by subservient-husband at 6:22 AM