Friday, February 11, 2011
I have had accepted for publish two stories on the Literotica.com site. There is a classification of works called “Reluctant/NonConsensual” (click link to see). In these works, the submissive is being forced to do things against their will and normally end up enjoying it. It seems to be a very popular theme. Mr. Rene from the Tamara in Trouble blog has a new, well authored, post concerning things he simply has no interest in. It got me thinking if reactions could be changed through a training plan.
I know that many times, a dominant would require a new submissive to complete a duration of training. During this time, the authority is established and the submissive it taught their role. Since it is a foreign concept to live under, it takes time to adapt to. Having a dominant participate in the transition by obligating a training program is helpful. Tools like humiliation, unquestioned obedience, infliction of pain, sleep deprivation, and many others may be used during a training period. I understand from some that the process never really ends, but levels off from initial shock approaches during the transition.
The question I was considering is if a submissive could be made to enjoy exploitation through a nonconsensual approach. This goes to Skinneristic environmental behavioralism theory, which I understand has all but completely been disregarded by the professional community. We know from history that an oppressed people almost never have their spirit surrendered completely and when authoritarian influences subside, the people find the will to normalize from the coercion they were under. That is sociology though. Down to an individual treatment of skinneristic practices, it too does not carry merit in the professional community.
So, can a submissive man be “made” to enjoy things he already does not posses a propensity for? From my own experience, the answer is yes. In Mr. Rene’s example he professes a strong desire to feel pleasure from recognizing his wife, Tamara, is pleased with him. I can relate to this. In doing so, I complete activities I would otherwise dread doing, but with the pleasure of knowing my wife is pleased with me. Tonight I will do the ironing. Sometimes when I do so, slowly and deliberately, I think of how my wife will enjoy me doing a good job and I often find it sexually arousing to the point of pre-cum. Ironing causing a sexual response? How weird is that?
Now, let us take other exploitation that may be able to use the same process. Let’s say my wife chooses to let me know she would enjoy if I would BLANK. BLANK can be staying chaste, submitting to being spanked, accepting humiliation, or any one of the many options available in the slave trainers toolbox. My wife would apply BLANK into the relationship on a routine basis. I would not enjoy it at first, but over time recognize that she was pleased with me and therefore I would end up learning to enjoy BLANK. This I see is where submissive slave training differs from Skinneristic techniques.
I wanted to put the train of thought into writing to see for myself it I thought it had merit and I think I can say now that I believe it does. A submissive man can be trained to enjoy just about anything, as long as he posses the desire for the pleasure in knowing his dominant is pleased with him. The dominant can use that to form an enjoyment response from just about any activity they choose.
Posted by subservient-husband at 11:02 AM