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Why make a change in your marriage dynamic...

For me, I can only say something in who I am gets indescribable contentment/satisfaction from submitting to the authority of my wife. There is bio-chemistry involved, as when she asserts her authority, my breathing quickens, heart rate increases, and I feel peace. I do not know why. Perhaps I was dropped on my head when I was little, or drank battery acid, or maybe this is some common trait in husbands. I only know, for me this is the case and I am so happy she accepted my gift of submission.

If you think you may be as I am, I only hope you are able to successfully navigate the transistion into a marriage where your wife has the authority in the relationship. For me it is bliss.

For the newbie of a wife led marriage....

1) If you have not told your wife, you should speak to her about your feelings. Suggest the Uniquely Rika book. It is a book for couples new to the idea. My wife found it very helpful. As a "vanilla" woman coming from an 50-50 marriage, she felt the book was worded to her. Ms. Rika does a wonderful job of describing the transition for a "vanilla" wife who has a submissive husband. You can also read an interview with Ms. Rika HERE.

2) You will have an impulsive need to subservience early on. Your wife will find this distasteful. Put effort into maintaining outward normalcy, even though inside you are cowering to be submissive.

3) Avoid sexual conversation. Early on, this will be all you can think about, but reacting sexually to all but every engagement with your wife will sour it for her.

Chastity (honor system vs. chastity device)

Almost all relationships with authority in the wife's control have chastity of the husband as a part of the dynamic. This is where the wife determines how often the husband is allowed to have an orgasm. Sometimes this is a reward system and sometimes the increased sexual energy from denial are used to instill obedience/empathy to the wife's wants/wishes. How the husband's chastity is enforced is either via the honor system or via a chastity device.

The honor system is more effective at instilling the wife's authority, as denial comes solely from the husband's obedience. However, there is no guarantee that it is being maintained when the two are apart.

A chastity device provides the assurance that orgasms occur on a schedule the wife wants to follow. However, an element of authority instilment is lost, as the control is coming from the device, and not the husband's obedience.

Which is best for the given situation is left to the best judgment of the wife. Both are common approaches for chastity management. For those of you who are considering the use of a device THIS LINK is a helpful introduction and THIS LINK is helpful concerning the science behind male chastity.

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Chastity (honor system vs. chastity device)

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