Initially, I was finding the feeling of this pleasure or exhilaration something I would seek out either by looking for opportunities to please Mary or through manipulating my way into it. I told Mary that I feared I was being subversive to her and after a few more honest conversations, she became better at recognizing and I learnt how not to. Instead I found it best for decisions to come from her and I simply enjoyed whichever way she wanted to go at the time.
I was also delegated the responsibility of overseeing the children with her instructions and guidance. I would see to them doing homework & chores as well as getting them dressed in the morning & putting them to sleep. They really only noticed that dad was being nice to mom and there were no more arguments. An outcome that I saw as positive even though it was unexpected. Who would of thought this would foster a healthier environment for the children too.
Mary was also finding that when I was kept chaste pretty much all the time, I enjoyed my submissive role more. She had told me I was no longer allowed any orgasm until she said. It turned out to her permitting me ones about every few weeks for various reasons. She enjoyed me satisfying her sexually whenever she was in the mood. Sometime she liked intercourse, but mostly she enjoyed cunnilingus. I had become very good during this time and that way she could continue to keep me chaste and having me enjoying my submissive side. After I had my increasingly infrequent orgasms, I often became contentious for several days.
One evening, Mary had a discussion with me about my chastity. “I really think it would be best if you plan on having fewer orgasms. I think about once every month or two is about right, but want to start increasing it to see how it goes.” I did agree that it would be enjoyable for me, but thought I needed some help to get into the pattern and suggested that I use a chastity device for the transition. Mary said she would look into it.
In the following weeks, I was really enjoying how things were working out. I had the enjoyment of sexual frustration from my lengthening chastity to give my submissive side the pleasure I craved. A few times I saw Mary watching me with a considering look, like she was able to see some change I could not. One night after I had served her dinner and was taking her dishes downstairs to wash, she said, “I had read that it is best to let the first time go a little longer and I wanted to let you know your next time at getting an orgasm will be labor day weekend. I want you to keep a good attitude until then though.”. I stood still considering since that was over two months away, but decided that she knew best and told her that I understood.